Andy's Glasses

This’ll shock you. Men and women are different. Sorry; …are different!!!! Holy shit!!!! All those years of truly believing that the only difference between men and women was the level of opportunities and expectations and was really down to being given a dolly at age 1 instead of a plastic machine gun, and now they’re saying its not so. You can dress a boy in dresses, give him make-up and toy babies, even make him an Arsenal fan, but there’s still something innate (a word you can still legally use in this context, but only under extreme caution) that makes him a boy. Forget the fact that males and females have a totally different chromosomal make-up and hence are totally, genetically ‘different’, ignore (at your peril) that a man, generally speaking, has a nob, we have all been waiting for science to validate this ‘properly’. Men and women are different. It’s in their brains.

They scanned foetuses in utero in the second half of pregnancies. I mean, that’s in itself quite a feat. But they did it. And they found distinct differences in the development of male and female brains. Unfortunately, as with all physiologically based brain research, they don’t have a fucking clue what this actually means in the real world outside of an MRI picture. Although maybe MRI scans ARE the actually reality and where we live is just NOTHING!! Like The Matrix!!! In which case I’m not paying my council tax.

The boy foetuses got very excited when Match of the Day came on. Started really kicking off. And the girl babies were doing what looked like knitting in the womb. Strange.

But in fact speculation is all they can do. Because they still don’t really know how each bit of the brain works, more importantly, how the collective bits link and what results these differences might produce. But they ‘feel’ that girls may be more cautious by nature, boys ‘vulnerable and programmable’ (science speak for ‘stupid’).

Not sure you need a longitudinal study costing 72 million dollars to find that. Just go to any kids playground (I go WITH LILA, OK?) and you can see that with an alarming consistency.

Is it even fair though to assume such a non-binary, gender-inflexible, either/or paradigm in 2019? Hmmm…

Happy Monday, be careful out there (for the men), lighten up (for the women)

A xxxx

Theresa May is history. Though doubtless she’ll be consigned to the darkest depths of history along with Hitler, Stalin, various Kims, (Jong-Un, Jong-Il, Kardashian), Sadam Hussain, George Graham and Bruce Forsyth.

She’s going. Any minute now. There is simply no alternative. She has lost the plot. Shame she didn’t lose The Deal instead but that’s what happens after two-and-a-half years of 100% stress.

So now the entire cabinet is having its Julius Caesar moment and telling her if she don’t go then they’ll go. And with no government that means…

Probably more chaos than we currently have.

A million people marched yesterday for a ‘second vote’. I sympathise with them, would love not just a second vote but a total fucking ‘RESET’, but basically its wrong on so many levels. If it had been a horrible rainy day there’d have only been 200,000 people. We love a march and a demo here.

So I marched to a place called Crews Hill. Well, I drove there actually. Because its miles away and in the middle of nowhere. And we went there because of the garden centres. Now if you hate shopping, as I do, and, much as you love the garden, don’t really love the process, as I don’t, then a garden centre represents some kind of hell. But that would be a normal garden centre. Which they don’t have at Crews Hill. There they have garden centres the size of European principalities. They are simply massive. The one yesterday must have occupied about 10 acres. All indoors. That’s a lot of plants. Ok, it is very cheap there, quite amazing value. So you’re walking for 30 minutes to the geraniums and there are 42 million of the fuckers. Which Mel has to examine, every last one, before selecting. She’s very thorough. I was tearing out my spleen.

And thinking who will take over from Theresa May. Apparently David Lidington is the favourite. WHO??? Yes, the unofficial deputy PM, no-one knows about him, no preconceptions, no-one cares about him one way or the other so he can just step in, do what he can, take us (screaming and crying) out of Europe and then never be heard of again.

The list of applicants for the job of ‘interim’ is not long. It comes with ‘your career ends here’ caveat.

I’m gonna mow the lawn.

Happy Sunday

A xxxx

Britain has very strict gun laws. I approve of any such laws which would prevent people such as me from owning a gun. Because I don’t need one. Though I would like one. In fact I’d like 3. A big one, a powerful one and a big, powerful one. But I’m not allowed. I could apply for special license but I don’t think that BECAUSE SO MANY DRIVERS NEED SHOOTING! is an acceptable reason, in the eyes of the law. Or because next time someone comes into the driveway to steal the covers from Mel’s door mirrors, I’M GONNA TAKE ‘EM OUT WITH AN AK47!!! Once again, even though such an action would have massive public support, particularly those of the public who’ve had door mirror covers nicked, it is deemed, legally, ‘excessive’. As is the price of replacement door mirror covers on a fucking Mini.

But gun laws are there to basically keep guns out of the hands of psychos and sociopaths. Who you never know are in such categories by merely asking if you have a criminal record and pay your council tax on time. In America its different. They have a constitutional ‘right to bare arms’ and thus you have to prove yourself unworthy to be refused a license. The opposite of any civilised country. Over there there is a right and only the really bad and dangerous have that right removed. In sensible countries like England and New Zealand you have to prove you have a right and a need before you can own a gun. And for some reason, ‘farmers need guns’. And as everyone in New Zealand is either a farmer or is related to one, because there’s nothing else to do there, they basically have no restrictions. Even over here there‘s an ‘all farmers get guns’ law. All you need is a tractor and that Colt 44 Magnum is yours.

Why do farmers need guns? Ok, some do, but those who grow rape seed? Corn? Wheat?? What ya gonna shoot? Beetles? A rampaging ant?

But ok, so farmers need guns, let’s let them all have a shotgun. Damage limitation. You wouldn’t want to get hit in the face from a shotgun blast but otherwise unless you’re six feet away, you’re probably not going to get killed by one. That doesn’t apply to clay pigeons.

So the manufacturers, ever open to a market opportunity and aware of how guns have a desirability that is inexplicable in normal society (excluding the USA then) they make super shotguns. They make pump action ones which can hold way more than 2 measly cartridges at a time. And now they make ‘semi-automatic’ ones, which fire up to ten at a time, and have widgets on the barrels to contain the usual ‘spread’ of the pellets, making them much more dangerous. Obviously much better for the farmers. Oh, and much better for the psychos too. Like the New Zealand Aussie nutter who cannot be named (like Voldemort), because that’s what he used. So we know they work.

They’re now banning ‘semi-automatics’ in New Zealand. They’ve never been legal here, other than those shotguns. Which probably require some new legislation.

Happy Saturday

A xxxx

Those poor Scotland fans, as they said on the news, had to travel through six time zones to watch their pathetically awful football team lower their bar even further by losing to a team 80 places below them in the rankings. Never before have so many kilts travelled to Kazakhstan. A country whose national sport is bear baiting. Or wife-stoning. No idea what they do there actually, its one of those wonderful, spice-route, mystery lands of the just further than the Middle East but not quite far enough to be the Far one, type destinations.

Six time zones. But they didn’t encounter Lila-time. It’s kind of its own ‘zone’. Exists only in her gorgeous but time-confused head. So when she called out this morning at 5.30, well actually I didn’t hear. Mel had to kindly (grrrrrrr) tell me. Lila was calling out for ‘Pappa A-dy’. She doesn’t have a specific problem with ‘n’s but being a true Londoner she can put glottal stops in wherever the hell she likes. It’s her right. I told her she needs to go back to sleep. Or ‘sweep’ as she calls it. I never said she wasn’t adorable, just time-confused. It’s the middle of the (FAAAARKIN’!!!) night, darling, you need to sleep. (I NEED TO SLEEP!!) No avail. So I tried lying on a bed with her instead. And demonstrating unselfishly what ‘going back to sleep’ looks like. She lay there for 3 minutes, eyes wide open, looking at me. Then started talking. Then bouncing. Jumping. Laughing. At which point I gave up to the enormous tide of energy that was engulfing my feeble attempts to find a few minutes peace and quiet.

(Note to self: when Lila is a stroppy, moany, tantrum-filled teenager sleeping til 3 in the afternoon; go round and jump up and down on her bed demanding ‘nursy rhymes’ on her ah-pad.)

And now we have a really really short delay on Brexit. Just a few hours, in relative terms. But somewhere in the next four days Mrs May is going to have a eureka moment. She’ll just ‘see the way!’ And all her party will agree, the Irish will love it, Jeremy Corbyn will kiss the soles of her leopard-print Jimmy Choos and all the Europeans will be kicking themselves (though not quite as hard as I’d like to kick them) that they couldn’t see such a thing that’s so obvious, so elegant, so neat and the perfect solution. We’ll leave with everything we ever dreamed of, the EU will pay US 39 billion and 42,000 new jobs will be created as tax levels plummet and duties on goods are made illegal.

I think I’ve spent too long in Lila-land.

Happy Friday

A xxxx

Do you remember when all you had to be was a ‘remainer’ or a ‘leaver’? Ahhhh, they almost seem like the heady, halcyon days of some sepia-coloured yesteryear of romance and love about Brexit. Because then came hard or soft. Next up was ‘deal or no deal’. And now we have yet another division: long extension or short extension. To article 50. How long to delay. And its all getting more and more confusing as Theresa May stutters and u-turns and manages to add yet more cabinet names to the ever-growing list of ‘those who want her GONE’.

Yesterday morning Mrs May was looking for a long delay. 9 months. To give time for ‘something positive’, because the previous two-and-a-half years have certainly not produced anything that could be even remotely so described. Yet by the time she sent her letter to (the awful, vile and exceedingly foreign) Donald Tusk, she had changed to a short delay of just 3 months.

This is a bit like a football team being 3-0 down after 90 minutes and seriously thinking that they can win it outright in the 3 minutes of injury time.

It’s not that Theresa wanted the short option. She had no choice. She was bullied and cajoled by Rees-Mogg and his ERG band of neo-fascists intent on an isolated, independent and friendless future for stand-alone Britain. They want ‘short’ because it essentially becomes the ‘deal or no deal’ option. And they’d love no deal. It’s what all rampant Brexiteers really want. Just walk away. Fuck Europe. Fuck their 39 billion quid demand. Fuck any possible future. And along with all that, our trading future is also royally fucked for the next decade at least. But we’ll be FREE!!!

So short delay. Europe will not improve, modify or even add one solitary little comma to ‘the deal’. The one which parliament has rejected twice and the speaker has banned from being re-presented. It is THE deal. The only deal that they will accept. And parliament won’t. Yet Theresa wants 90 days to go back on the hamster’s treadmill of trying to get her poxy ‘deal’ approved by parliament to avoid no deal.

Same shit, different 90 days.

Happy Thursday

A xxxx

We need to exercise. Said so in the Times. Front page news. Boils down to this: exercise is probably pretty good for you. Who’d’a known that?? But to labour the point, an American study found that just 10 minutes a week of something like a ‘brisk walk’ or dancing, reduces your likelihood of dying within the next decade by almost 20% Holy shit!!! I’m walking round the house as I write this, briskly, the iPad hanging on a lanyard round my neck. Cos if I stop and sit still I will die! Or, I’ll be 80% more likely to die. Within the next 10 years.

Even with the test being performed in America, I wanna know where they found people (among the 88,000 being tested for 9 years, so its sounds pukka) who don’t do 10 minutes of walking a week. The ‘test sample’. The validating group. The 20% who obviously did die or there’d be no story. Did they nail people to their beds? Chain them to the floor of a dungeon? What?? Even some great, fat, supersized Yank has to walk over to the phone to call Uber Eats. Or get up to answer the door when the pizzas arrive. That’s exercise, innit??

The test group were aged from 40 to 85. Yet no mention was made of any age significance or correlation. I’m no gambler but I’d bet 3 Big Macs that someone starting at 40 is way less likely to die in his next decade than someone who is 85. Regardless of how much walking he/she does. But they didn’t mention that.

I walk tons. I like walking and hate crowds. So I walk the long way from my station every morning so I don’t have to change tube lines or encounter a million tourists on walking tours down The Strand. And I always take the stairs. Up or down. Firstly cos I hate lifts. But also because it hurts. In that virtuously masochistic way that enables you to sneer smugly at all the fat bastards who took the escalator. “Hah!” I’m gonna tell them today. “You’ll all be DEAD within a decade!” In fact its only 20% of them who’ll be dead but we don’t know which ones til it happens. And I can’t shout it that loudly as I’m always a bit breathless by the top of the stairway, with serious thigh-burn.

But they need scaring into action. I don’t want to spend the next 10 years stepping over corpses at Embankment station.

Fortune favours the Fit.

Happy walking Wednesday

A xxxx

I don’t generally rush to see Oscar winning movies. If they were ‘worthy’ I’d have seen them on first release. Unless we were too busy in which case I wouldn’t. Got that? So for various reasons, I missed The Favourite. Which was nominated for every Oscar imaginable, except for Best Short Animation, and won just ‘best actress’ for Olivia Coleman. Who played Queen Anne. The last of the Stuart Monarchs. Don’t ask me to name the rest, but I’d guess at a James or 2, probably a Charles, the odd Mary.

And The Favourite is a great film. Really great. It looks fantastic, the sets and costumes are exactly what you’d expect, if not hope for, and the cast brilliant. Oh, and its very funny. Probably much much funnier than real life was in the early 1700s.

Watching such a movie as ‘entertainment’ is fine. Watching as some form of ‘education’, a type of enlightenment about a period/person we know little about, is a bit different. But that’s ok. Firstly there’s ‘artistic license’ which enables the writers to fabricate whatever they want as long as no helicopters appear in the War of the Roses. Satnav systems are completely out of the question. Because in the early 18th century, instead of all this modern wizardry and technology, they had mud. Shit-loads of mud. It was everywhere.

And then there’s the fact that information is scarce from ‘way back in ‘istory’. So although we have fully documented laws and records, its much harder to ‘know’ the people underneath the titles.

So they made Queen Anne a raving loony. Which she could well have been. Inbreeding in Europe’s monarchies reached catastrophic point by Victorian times with every monarch being no more than a second cousin from every other as pacts and treaties were tied up by marrying off kids. Princess Szyekvska of Moldova (8 years old) would be married to Prince Jean-Marie, as soon as he was born. They were siblings. But from different parents.

When Anne was on the throne, the real power lay with her best friend and (if the movie be believed) uber-bully, Lady Sarah, the Dutchess of Marlboro. Whose husband, the Duke, was the nations leading general and invented cigarettes. Rachel Weisz was fabulous as Lady Sarah. And Emma Stone (who I just love) was brilliant as yet another conniving, controlling bitch-from-hell, manipulating everyone and everything to her needs and desires.

We learned that although Queen Anne was pregnant 17 times and lost them all, she was in fact a lesbian. How they learned this, I know not. But it added to the film. In which each and every man was portrayed as a be-wigged, rouged-up imbecile. But the women were strong. Holy shit were they strong.

Happy Tuesday

A xxxx

I wasn’t engaged in the football this weekend. I took 2 days off. Well, not completely ‘off’ in any normal definition of ‘not being on’, but just relatively. Firstly because I had work to do regarding the rugby, and secondly because Spurs weren’t playing so the whole program becomes devalued, reduced, turns to black’n’white.

As a Welshman I was really proud of my fine nation’s amazing feat of winning the Grand Slam in the Six Nation’s. Well, I’m as Welsh as Warren Gatland, if not more so. But I’m not as Welsh as Alan Wyn Jones. No-one is. Firstly its against the law to be more Welsh than the captain of their rugby team, secondly he has a name that would make no sense anywhere else in the world, and thirdly, the man is a God. With a capital G. Not only is he consistently the best player in every match he plays, against Ireland on Saturday he was officially canonised. He twisted a knee in one of 300 (so it appeared) crunching tackles and rucks he was involved in. Stayed on the floor. And this is not a footballer who will play dead if his hair gel gets messed up. This is the hard man’s hard man. And down he stayed. The Principality Stadium was actually silent as the despair of the entire Welsh nation was on hold. Eventually he hobbled up, limped along and then with 2.5 kilometres of bandage on his leg, played on. And not just, like, stayed to make up the numbers, he fucking PLAYED. As he always and only can.

Then England played. And it was… quite frankly ridiculous. Great to watch, though I missed the all-important, match-defining second half. In which the Scots came back from being 31-7 down at half time, to being 38-31 up with 2 minutes left. Incredibly, England managed to score again, with the clock very ‘red’ to tie it up. But really? Really???

And there were only 2 results in football this weekend. Even though 29 matches were played. The results were: Manchester City have won the FA Cup (well are Watford, Wolves or Brighton going to stop them???) and Liverpool went to of the league again.

Though I did note, with just a little glee (ok, ever such a lot of glee) that Chelsea managed to lose at Everton. Which does Spurs’ top 4 aspirations no harm at all and gives everyone something to snigger about.

Ok, back to work.

Happy Monday

A xxxx

We all have a cultural frame of reference. Mine is The Blues Brothers. I love that film. Always have. And one line always springs to mind (strange mind; what can I say?) at certain times. “I hate Illinois Nazis!” said John Belushi’s ‘Jake’ just before they drove their car straight into a whole procession of swastika-wearing, jack-booted white supremacists. Because in the 1970s movies you could actually use a swastika. Especially if you wanted to mock, ridicule and humiliate it.

I’m gonna reckon Donald Trump didn’t see that movie. Because he has absolutely no discernible sense of humour and very little concept of ‘enjoyment’ that doesn’t involve golf balls or sexual assault. But if he had, he wouldn’t have liked that scene. Because I reckon Donald doesn’t share Jake’s hatred of Illinois Nazis. I reckon he’d have justified their viewpoint, mitigated their swastikas, defended their right to free speech and told of how they’re misunderstood and entitled to their side of the argument.

On Saturday, in the aftermath of the Christchurch massacre, Donald stated that there is no rise in right-wing extremism. Even though the general consensus would indicate otherwise. Strongly. But maybe its just a matter of perspective, of starting point, of definition. Because Donald was heavily involved with the alt-right, with Steve Bannon, with Breitbart News, so it could be that he’s more ‘normalised’ to right wing thought. If he thinks at all.

Donald Trump was endorsed by David Duke, the former grand-imperial-tosser of the KKK. Then he chose to re-tweet an horrendously Islamophobic comment by the dozy bitch from England First (or whatever they call themselves) who named her baby Adolph and is currently in prison for inciting racial hatred.

Then there was the terrible attack by the white supremacist on a black protest, where the Nazi murdered people with his car. To which Donald thought ‘both sides were to blame’. One side for protesting and being black, the other by committing mass murder with a car. That’s even.

So for Donald, there is no ‘sudden upsurge’ in neo-naziism. For him its always been there, its always been acceptable, its always just a slight extension of his own personal views. Banning all Muslims was his idea. Building a wall to keep out Mexicans is certainly his idea. So a slight slippage to all-out white supremacist ideology is not very far. Though I think he calls it ‘orange supremacy’.

No accusations. I’m just sayin’…

Happy Sunday

A xxxx

Extremists! Phah!!!

It’s easy to become an extremist. Here’s all you have to do:

1. Go online
2. Pick your extremism of choice from the wonderful array on offer. For those unable to decide from all the mouth-watering options, there’s web-sites that can help. Radicalised-R-Us is a good one. Compare the Murderers.com. And U-switch-blade, will turn you from a hunt sabateur to a neo Nazi in the flash of a letter-bomb.
3. Ensure that you’re a brain-dead supermoron with no sense of morality or decency
4. Become brainwashed by your chosen bunch of sociopaths
5. Buy a gun. Or two. Or rent a van.
6. Let rip.

I was in Christchurch just a couple of months ago. Beautiful little city. 300,000 people. Not one of whom was out and about on Christmas Day. The quietest place in the entire world. But terrorism? In New Zealand?? It’s almost unthinkable. And that’s what terrorism does, it strikes where least expected.

This time a ‘white supremacist’. The rhetoric is marginally different but the result is the same. Death to innocent people. Because terrorists don’t fight an enemy. Enemies fight back. Innocent civilians are much easier, safer, more abundant. Which is why, even though Brenton Tarrant felt himself in some kind of ‘first person shooter’ video game, and in fact did video the who sorry event, no-one was firing back. Not one shot at him. It’s an act of ultimate cowardice.

And they’re raging at Facebook for allowing the live video on its pages. As if Facebook is a little office in Croydon where Mr Facebook sits and checks everything before allowing it on. The very nature of the internet is that everyone is connected to everyone else WITHOUT INTERVENTION OR INTERMEDIARIES. Of course, there are facilities in place to try and filter out unwanted shit, like a mass murder, but essentially, until a person has drawn attention about such things, the nature of the beast is that 12 million people have seen it, uploaded it, forwarded it before it can be stopped or removed. Unless we want some kind of blanket censorship, and we certainly don’t, stuff will slip through.

So be they white supremacists, jihadis, IRA, its basically the same people, stupid, suggestible losers, looking for an excuse to kill. The ‘narrative’ changes, the ‘ideologies’ differ, but really the bottom line remains awfully, tragically the same.

Happy Saturday

A xxxx