Andy's Glasses

There’s a new league table about. It’s the ‘most abused football players on social media’. The fact that this kind of abuse is posted by morons is highlighted by the fact that Harry Kane is in the Top 10. I have no idea why anyone would want to abuse a lovely man who is the captain of England. Unless they’re not English, would be a possibility. So there’s a conspiracy by rogue nations and my Harry is being taunted by a scummy bunch of Russian hackers, Chinese troublemakers, Chechen extremists and Scottish people. Jack Grealish also makes the cut so its not all a bad thing. The other 8 members of this most undesirable of top 10s all play for Manchester United. At the top, in number one slot, obviously, is Christiano Ronaldo, for a million different reasons, all fully justified. Ronaldo even beat Harry Maguire, so its not based on merit. And you can bet that about 99% of the abuse comes from Man United fans. Because their team had a shitty season. Win a trophy? They barely won a match. Ironically, without Ronaldo, they’d probably have been relegated. But the north-west of England is a footballing land filled with the greatest sense of entitlement found outside of a Royal dynasty. Obviously I’m not talking about Burnley here, nor Tranmere Rovers. Just the ‘big 3’ from that part of the world. It used to just be 2 of them who felt entitled, then Abu Dhabi rolled in and made it 3.

So COME ON!!! We don’t want Manchester United topping any table. Abuse your own players NOW!!!

This morning, not at all opportunistically, I received an email. From Spurs. Telling me how tickets for the Tottenham women’s games are now on sale. So we can all go and support the Cockerelesses. The Chickens. Chicks? Hens? Whatever. And the matches are being played at Stadium Hotspur, the (quite literally) finest stadium in the world. Especially when its full. With only 3,000 people in the 62,000 seats it won’t be so… buzzy. And for 7 quid a ticket? Could I go? Should I go? Just wear a balaclava and become part of ‘the legacy’.

Happy Wednesday

A xxxx

England beat Germany in the gel’s (sexist term, patronising) football final on Sunday, in case you missed that. Little blonde, (more sexism, bit of blondism), Chloe Kelly celebrated her winning goal by taking off her shirt and running round in her sports bra (bookable offence, even for boys, the shirt thing, not the bra). Which in fact was a replication of one of Chloe’s heroine’s goal celebrations way back when you could do such a thing. And no-one cared because it was a magical moment for all the women supporters, and boy supporters have long been advocates of ‘GET YER KIT OFF!!!’ (Disgustingly sexist and overtly #metoo thing to think) so everyone was happy. Gary Linneker tweeted: “The Lionesses have only gone and done it, and Kelly is England’s heroine, bra none”.

Which is a statement worthy of capital punishment. An offence to all women, to all those who identify as women, to all people who wear bras, men or women, or both, some, either, bit of each. Gary quite rightly deleted the tweet after a storm of complaints from offended… people.

And I’d like to know who these ‘people’ are. I need to know what, exactly, so offended them in Linneker’s simple, amusing, play-on-words, pun. I’d like to talk to them to find where the ‘barriers’ are, exactly, in a world proud of ‘free speech’. I’d like to engage with them, possibly suggest various therapies to help them, and then beat them with baseball bats. Really badly. Possibly fatally. If not then they need to be locked up and taken completely off any form of media contact so they can’t fuck up something so simple and pleasurable as innocent humour.

I’m tolerant to everything except intolerance.

Meanwhile, whilst our papers are hailing the Lionesses for their achievement, the German papers are taking a different approach. Which, to a degree, you’d expect. But they’re accusing us of ‘fraudulently’ winning the match. Because they should have had a penalty when Leah Williamson handled the ball. Which was examined by VAR and shown to be not the case. And then, amazingly, comparing it to Geoff Hurst’s third goal in the 1966 World Cup Final when the ball did or possibly didn’t, cross the goal line. I mean, really? This is some 56-year conspiracy reserved for when England play Germany in any final? Was the ref on Sunday the great grand-daughter of the one in 1966???? I mean… I mean… oh just fuck off! (Rude, insulting, racism, xenophobic, nationalistic… but so worthy)

Happy Tuesday

A xxxx

OMG, them Lionesses did it!!! Beat the Hun! Stole victory!!! Became champions of all the women in all of Europe. At football. Not, kind’a, ‘football-football’, but wimmin’s football. The next best thing. The last English-person to lift a trophy worth lifting was Bobby Moore in 1966. And he was a boy. So, cynicism, snobbery, misogyny and any sense of male-ism aside, this is just a brilliant thing. It will inspire an entire generation of young women to emulate the effects that the World Cup win had on boys. So look forward in 10 years time to the ‘new women’. Who’ll be immensely fat, covered in tattoos, drink 15 pints a day/night, eat total shitty food start fights with anyone, but watch loads of football on tv. The ‘legacy’. Well done gels.

Joe Biden has finally found something he’s really good at. Not being president, don’t be silly, not standing up straight for protracted periods (4 minutes), he’s too old, not getting anything actually done nor making speeches which anyone would ever believe. No. But he’s brilliant at getting Covid. A true ‘world leader’. Twice in 2 weeks is positively outstanding.

A disaster was averted this morning in my house. I went to gather the 34 items required for me to construct ‘the sandwich’ and found that my fridge was completely tomato-free. Oh no! Tomatoes, a ‘superfood’, actually represent the only one of my ‘5 a day’ present in ‘the sandwich’. Even though hummus is made from chickpeas, a vegetable kind’a thing, that doesn’t count. Chillies are good too, but not when just an ingredient of ‘piri piri mayonnaise’, I reckon. Gerkins are veggie-ish but not when pickled within an inch of their little lives. But don’t panic! I am post-modern, mid-save-the-planet Man, I grow my own food!!! So I went into the garden, past the fields of wheat, across from the orchard and olive groves, turned right at the vineyards, left at the lamb’s paddock (eeeuuuuwww) and chicken huts and there, in their little pot, was the ‘tomato crop’. Ripe and ready. And totally fucking ‘organic’! I’ve seen the foxes piss on them myself, can’t get more ‘organic’ than that.

Happy Monday

A xxxx

There’s going to be 87,000 football fans at Wembley tonight to watch England play Germany in the Euro final. I didn’t know there was 87,000 people prepared to watch women’s football but I’m pleased there are. Because it makes up for the almost unforgivable but completely understandable indifference of most of YOU, so-called ‘football fans’! COME ON ING-LUND!!! (It’s the Germans FFS, that’s gotta be worth a shout even if it was tiddly-winks).

The Truss/Sunak conundrum continues apace. Though not a conundrum for us mere mortals to solve, only for those exalted ‘members of the Conservative Party’, the retired colonels, hospital matrons in Oxfordshire, Hampshire and Surrey, blue-rinsed twin-set wearers from various market towns, anyone who belongs to ‘a hunt’ and even, so I’m led to believe, one or two ‘young people’ (I’m thinking a juvenile Jacob Rees Mog here, or that revoltingly precocious version of William Hague, the image of which, as he addressed ‘his’ party, aged about 14, still gives me nightmares on occasion to the point I always have a bucket next to my bed).

Rishi has now… errrr… has now… ‘amended’ his previous stance to allow for the possibility of taking vat off of fuel bills. Stating, quite rightly, that ‘this is not a reduction in the tax which I’ve been banging on about since I stabbed Boris in the back to start this whole debacle’, its just… pragmatic). So its not a u-turn at all. He’s still opposed to any reduction in taxation whilst the covid debt is so high, but is prepared to make concessions because of the tragedy facing so many people. Which may look like a tax reduction but only to the uninitiated.

And I realised that I know virtually nothing about Liz Truss. With Rishi, we’ve seen his bank statements (very, very large) and his and his wife’s tax returns (very, very, very small) for the last 20 years. Even though they’ve only known each other for 12. But Lizzy? Is she married? Children? We know she went to a comprehensive in Leeds because that has become a rod for posh kid Rishi’s back. But we need to know the dirt. We really do. How can we not-vote for someone about whom we know so little???

Happy Sunday

A xxxx

I love this picture. Ok, I love all photos of ‘the kids’, as you may have, kind’a, noticed. But this represents a dramatic (?) reconstruction of the famous ‘Lord and Lady Muck’ situation in which they’re sitting at opposite ends of a massive, stately-home dining table and one asks t’other for the marmalade. Neither of my grandchildren eat marmalade, and certainly not a dinner time (we have standards!!!), though Joey might spread some on his sausages, just because… its what kids do. Our ‘stately home’ has a west facing garden. So by the end of the day, the sunlight pours in. And seriously affects the picture quality of cartoons on an iPad. Thus they HAVE to sit in shaded regions. Because too many reflections on Peppa Pig is simply unacceptable. So now ya know. We only separate them otherwise to avoid bloodshed.

The Commonwealth Games opened last night. For the first time ever, there are more women’s events than men’s. Which I’m hoping just means more beach volleyball. Or perhaps the men should just start identifying as women and get more medals. But if they do, they’ll no longer be able to use the Tavistock Clinic for their gender reassignment. They’ve been shut down. Ok, not exactly ‘shut down’, they still do lots of good work for troubled kids, but they no longer have exclusive rights to pander to the whims of slightly confused pre-pubescents (and find me one’o them who ain’t confused and I’ll buy you a jock-strap with matching bra) and ‘some might say’, almost encourage them to consider gender dysmorphia and possibly transitioning into something that more suits Sir or Madam or both’s feelings at the moment, perhaps?

It’s not like the Tavistock actively advertised for troubled kids and gave them puberty-delaying meds and actively encouraged them to think that just because you were born with testicles does NOT mean you have to live your life as a mere man. It’s just that the whole ethos of the place did emit a whole vibe of encouragement and appeasement rather than more impartiality in its suggestions to a really vulnerable group of permanently confused individuals. And thus, the clinic has lost its total monopoly of gender problematic kids. In fact its lost its right to treat them totally, in favour of many other options. Which must be a good thing.

For the rest of the Commonwealth Games, the theme is ‘Birmingham’. Strangulated, drawn-out vowel-sounds are the way forward as Lenny Henry, Simon le-fuckin-Bon and half of Black Sabbath were wheeled out to show that, as well as a history ripe with heavy industry, they have a cultural side too. Not that you’d know that by listening to Duran Simon last night, but trust me, they have.

Happy Friday

A xxxx

We can’t put it off any longer. We NEED to have the women’s football conversation. England have now reached the final, beating Sweden last night in a wipeout 4-nil win over the pretty hot favourites (that’s ‘pretty’ as in ‘fairly’, rather than ‘cute’, although some of them were) to win the tournament. Therefore we need to take this seriously. Something that, for reasons we might (or might not) get to, has proven somewhat difficult for me during the preceding rounds of the tournament.

I even watched some of last night’s match. Ok, the last 10 minutes, but its not a duration competition, FFS, I actually watched some of a match and it was pretty (?) good.

I emphatically love football and I totally love women. So what’s the problem? Well, I love red wine and I love gardening too, but I wouldn’t necessarily mix those either, although thinking about it… Sorry. Women’s football. Focus.

Devotees of the Premier League are privileged to watch the best football in the world. Week after week, year after year. And the league is full of amazing skills and fabulous movement between players and all manner of great things, wonderful things. Unless you’re an Arsenal fan, obviously. But it becomes the norm, raises the bar and creates an unrealistic expectation, even among those of us who played the game for years, to not quite such a high standard, that ‘all football must look like that’.

Then you turn on in a moment of weakness to watch Luton Town play Shrewsbury on a Tuesday night in February and you suddenly appreciate how brilliant, how elegant, how non-industrial our Premier League really is. And the women’s football is no doubt skilful and delightful but its simply not ‘at that level’. Not yet. Possibly never, depending on whether you’re a gender judgmentalist cave-man or a equal opportunity unrealist.

So I have to enter a different mind-set when I watch (as I will on Sunday for the final) women’s football. Turn off the ‘premier expectation’ app and hit the ‘other games’ module instead. And then you’ll be able to appreciate the woman’s game, not for what it isn’t, which is the man’s game, but for what it is on its own terms. Which is 22 fairly fit and gorgeous babes bouncing round in shorts and tight shirts waggling their pony tails. Obviously I mean that in the most non-objectifying way possible.

Why do they all have pony-tails? Is it a league requirement? And why are they all dyed blonde? Zlatan Ibrahimovic never dyed his. I think they need to get a bit more creative, hair-wise and channel their inner Jack Grealish. He knows more about hair adornments than MichaelJohn.

So now I’m on board. England in a final. Any England. Any sport. Gotta be worth a roar.

Happy Wednesday

A xxxx

Rishi Sunak’s team made a plan. It went like this: no more Mr Nice Guy! No more smooth and slick, everyone hates that. Bare your fucking teeth and go totally pit-bull out there! He was pulling at his lead before Sophie Raworth said ‘good evening’.

Liz Truss opted for a calmer, more measured, more ‘zen’ kind of approach, pop a couple of Valium before it goes live and lose the wooden attitude. Limber up. And limber she was. Or did. Whatever.

Both debaters received instructions from the Conservative party beforehand. Advising them to ‘repair’ recent damage to the party. Don’t descend into slagging each other off, don’t pick, don’t fight, don’t shout, don’t swear, no knives or knuckle-dusters. Present Conservatives as good, decent people. Always a difficult ask.

Which in fact proved impossible as the debate started. Rishi interrupted, intervened, over-shouted, blabbered on, attacked every word, left Liz no time to speak and basically bullied his way through. Because someone told him beforehand that he’s too smooth and needs to appear more ‘forceful’ or ‘dominant’, to try and overcome the overall impression of weedy, geeky, nerdy, rather creepy little man. So he became the class bully. He was, in fact, I thought, rather rude. You can disagree with an opponent’s view, but let her finish the sentence, FFS.

So there was Rishi, red in face and foam on his lips, emitting spittle with every shout, scream and cry, and there was Liz, cool as ya like, replying calmly and evenly, with a half-smile, holding an umbrella for the spray.

There were policies spoken about too, apparently. Tax and stuff. But quite frankly I was more concerned with their manner, their attitudes, their deportment.

Did either of them epitomise ‘prime minister’? I’m not sure. All I know is, after last night, I like her much more than I did previously and I don’t like him, much more than I didn’t like him previously.

And round 2 is tonight. I think I’ll take a walk/clean the car/water the garden/do a jigsaw puzzle.

Happy Tuesday

A xxxx

I’m a official penshoner. Therefore, I can moan. It’s what’s expected of me. When I was 65 it wasn’t allowed but now its mandatory. And not just to moan, but in fact to re-moan. Which is being miserable specifically about Brexit. Which I have been since the votes were counted. Albeit illegally because I wasn’t getting me pension then.

But I’ve been waiting for a few years now to see these alleged Brexit benefits. In fact, to see just one benefit. Getting an email the other day from UPS querying an invoice for goods coming from France. From a company for whom they’ve been delivering consistently since January 1st 2021. It asked me to ‘give the value for the 0.00 priced goods’. As in, there were spectacle frames, charged, and cases and cloths, zero.

So why UPS suddenly need to query something that they’ve encountered hundreds or thousands of times previously, and how they can actually ask: ‘how much is something which costs nothing?’ I think counts as a Brexit benefit. Along with all the other vat bollocks which we now have to try and demystify every month.

Along with looking forward to buying visas for trips to Berlin, Paris, Rome and… other European places. And no longer using UK phone allowances over there too. They’re big benefits.

Queuing half way down the M2 because the French are the most annoyingly obstructive nation in the world is another benefit. Because before Brexit they had no cause to ‘make un point’ and now they do. Stroppy fuckers.

But the real benefits are, as promised, the 315 million pounds a day going into the NHS! Which is brilliant and precisely why our health service is working in such a fantastically efficient manner with no staff issues whatsoever now that all the Europeans have left. I’m not sure whether the departure of GPs from active service can be blamed on Brexit but we might as well throw it in there. Along with the 2 year waits for routine operations because the hospitals are having to take up the immense slack of the sick folk the GPs no longer see. There’s no-one to pick crops and restaurants are replacing horrible east European staff with horrible British staff, when they can find them. Otherwise its self-service all the way.

So I’m converted. Brexit was the best idea since… giving Prince Andrew a passport. The finest since… Hitler became chancellor in 1933. Or Boris becoming PM in 2018.

Ok, I’ve remoaned, I feel better now.

Happy Sunday

A xxxx

What’s happened to the French? Ok, they’ve never been ‘nice’ in any way, we wouldn’t expect that, barely even ‘decent’ in most cases. But they’ve always been good at certain other things, other than nastiness, snooty attitudes, surrendering, misplaced sense of superiority and winning the odd World Cup. They have always been obsessive bureaucrats, which is why that’s a French world. They invented it. And along with bureaucracy comes organisational expectations, the basic structure behind the obsessive demands.

And yet twice in a very short time, the French have shown all the organisational skills of Norman Wisdom. All the logical, box-ticking thoroughness of Joey.

First was this year’s Champions League final fiasco. In which the most shambolic lack of preparation resulted in Liverpool fans going through hell, being herded, locked outside the ground, sprayed with tear-gas and abused. And the authorities in Paris had the outright chutzpah to blame those Liverpool fans. Who, it must be said, are not without their history, but in this instance were completely innocent. The ‘inquiry’ later exonerated the fans and accepted responsibility… ish. In a very French way. Je regret rien. And it all stems from cowardice. They were so prepared for Liverpool fans to behave… well, like Liverpool fans in Europe, that they totally over-reacted when they didn’t. And basically ‘pulled the trigger’ at the first line of ‘vous jamais marchez seuls’.

Then yesterday was ‘Tossergate deux’. The schools broke up so all those children got systematically loaded into the back of VW Sharans, given an iPad, a juice box and a colouring book, for the trip down to Dover. To France!!! To Holiday!!!

That was the plan. Because in the remains of our European membership, we have French customs over here, in Dover. So you check onto your ferry and when you arrive in Calais to visit the refugee centres, you can just drive away. And yesterday morning, arguably the first day of the busiest holiday weekend of the year, instead of having the 14 French border guards there to find undesirables, aliens and terrorists, there were only 6. The other 8 were still in bed with their mistresses, eating croissants or surrendering to some unseen army. A situation which caused 8 hour delays. By which time, the iPads had run out of charge, the colouring books completed and the juice boxes long empty, most into the back of the car along with a few wee-wees and other undesirable stuff.

So we need to know what’s the French for ‘couldn’t organise a piss-up in a brewery’. Because it would appear that under Macron’s leadership, they actually couldn’t.

Happy Samedi

A xxxx

I bought Joey a new toy. I think he was fed up with building blocks, plastic dinosaurs, planes and helicopters. His mother won’t let him have any guns and I’m fairly sure she never let him have the lovely, colour-coordinated set of fabulous throwing knives I bought him last Christmas. So I got him this. Ok, I got me this but he saw the box it arrived in and, with that wonderful lack of procrastination or delay that children drive you insane with, we had to put it together NOW!!! And then it needed testing. So who’s gonna test it??? Suffice to say: the garden hose with regular spray attachment is now so far ‘yesterday’s toy’ that’s its not worth ever unplugging the new, all-powered up high pressure jet. “Yes Joey, of course you can bring it into the house to clean the tv…and I think your grandmother might need a wash too…”

Yet its a positive thing that his parents don’t gender stereotype the boy. If I can still say ‘boy’? He does self-identify as such so that should appease those of a more sensitive nature. So we let him play with Lila’s dolls and he decapitates them. I suggested we enrol him in ‘wife beater classes for the under 5s’ as he has such a natural inclination in that direction that I’d hate it to be one of those ‘talents we missed’ moments in his later life. I was thrown out of the house.

Yet you can’t help but wonder about the nature of ‘gender’. I’ve conducted an extensive study (Lila AND Joey) for 5 (and 3) years now. And Lila remains a ‘girly girl’ in every single way. She likes pink, love hair ties, bows, clips, ribbons and make up. She does ballet, mixes predominantly with the girls at her school and is learning to become wily, manipulative, provocative and at times nasty. All very feminine characteristics. She does play football. Which I feel is a conversation for another day, with the World Cup for Ladies (apparently) dominating our lives at the moment. Unless its finished. Couldn’t tell you.

Joey likes breaking things. Hitting things. He likes damage, pissing anywhere he gets the urge and acting like a football hooligan without the singing. All very male traits. Well they used to be. Now they’re just ‘traits of a neutral variety’.

But this apparent difference may NOT just be down to chromosomes, we can still blame the parents for unconscious gender assignment and other examples of terrible parenting.

Its a minefield. I’ll help you navigate through it. Like Princess Diana! But with a nob.

Happy Friday

A xxxx